“Recovery can only take place within the context of relationships; it cannot occur in isolation.”

“Love, work and knowledge are the wellsprings of our life. They should also govern it.”

“The pleasure of living and the pleasure of the orgasm are identical. Extreme orgasm anxiety forms the basis of the general fear of life.”

“Responsibility is the admission that you have a role in this game called life.”

“The process of changing the structure itself is a critical aspect of therapy, because when the structure changes, the problem no longer exists.”

“Dare to love yourself as if you were a rainbow with gold at both ends”